1) They pay close attention to how
of developing your personal power and maintaining it is focusing on how you
think. The way you approach something is your greatest personal power; you have
the power to think how you want to think and feel how you want to feel.
with high levels of personal power focus on the way they think. They know it’s
okay to feel the emotions their feeling and to think the way they think, so
long as they look at it the right way. They don’t blame their actions,
decisions, emotions, or thought processes on anyone else; they take full
2) They forgive easily
who have high levels of personal power know that forgiveness is not for the
person who hurt them, but for themselves. When you harbor hatred and hold on to
grudges, you hurt no one but yourself.
gives you the power and allows you to move on from the transgression and grow.
You don’t have to forget the transgression when you forgive, but letting it go
will give you the power and the freedom to move past it.
3) They set boundaries
are an important asset to developing and honing your personal power. Those with
high levels of personal power set emotional and physical boundaries. This
allows them the control to spend their time how they want and with whom they
want. They don’t blame others for wasting their time or for forcing them to do
boundaries also play a role in the first point we made, how you think about
things. You have the power to control what you do, how you view the time you
spend, and who you blame. Those with high levels of personal power don’t blame
others for anything; they take full control and hold all the power.
4) They take responsibility
with high levels of personal power take full responsibility for their feelings
and actions. You won’t hear these people saying that so-and-so made them feel a certain way or that
someone forced them to do something.
They take responsibility, control, and power.
you control your emotions, actions, and choices. No one can force a person with
personal power to do anything.
5) They don’t complain, they
don’t get anywhere by simply grumbling and complaining. You have to actually
look for a solution. Those with high levels of personal power don’t just
grumble and complain, they look for what they can do to fix the problem. That’s
not to say that you can’t vent, you can, it just all comes down to the way
you’re thinking and how you’re perceiving the situation.
with high levels of personal power get far in life. They tend to be successful
at everything they do and hold the power in all situations. In order to be like
them and develop and hone your personal power, you have to learn from them and
duplicate their habits.
hope this article helped to guide you on your journey towards honing your
personal power and that you make the effort to imitate these habits.